Coping with the loss of a loved one is one of life’s most difficult and painful challenges. It can also be an overwhelming time, especially if you’re responsible for funeral planning and writing an obituary. The compassionate staff at Fred D. Knapp & Son Funeral Home understands. They’ve served the Greenwich, CT, community since 1846, and they strive to provide valuable assistance when you need it the most.

Writing an obituary is typically done before planning a funeral. It’s understandable if you aren’t quite sure where to begin. It helps to begin with a basic outline and to view the obituary as a chance to honor your loved one with respect and care. Here are some tips:

• Include a Biography: Begin with simple biographical details to ease your way into writing the obituary. You can include your loved one’s complete name, dates of birth, marriage, and death, schools attended, military service, and other valuable information. You might share important jobs they performed or degrees they earned.
• Mention Hobbies: This is where you have the opportunity to allow your loved one to shine. Include their special interests, favorite places, beloved hobbies, and unique personality quirks. You can also use this opportunity to include any civic or social interests they may have had, such as charitable efforts, volunteering, or special causes.
• Funeral Details: The obituary should also include pertinent information about the funeral, including the location, date, and the time. You may also include whether the family prefers donations be made to a specific charity in lieu of receiving flowers. If the funeral is private, it’s appropriate to include this information here as well. Keep in mind that the obituary should be published at least two or three days prior to the funeral services, so guests have time to make plans.

Finally, bear in mind, there’s no pressure to write a “perfect” obituary. The purpose is simply to pay homage to the deceased with kindness and love. By capturing their special traits, you can be confident knowing you’ll make your loved one proud. You can also rely on everyone at Fred D. Knapp & Son Funeral Home to provide gentle guidance along the way. From planning a funeral to arranging for a cremation or burial, they will handle everything with patience and grace. Visit the website to learn more, or call (203) 869-0315.