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Family Law Attorneys Share 3 Tips for Discussing Divorce With Children May 1, 2017

Garden City, Nassau County
Family Law Attorneys Share 3 Tips for Discussing Divorce With Children, Garden City, New York

If you have children, getting a divorce is inherently more complicated. For many parents, telling their children about the impending change is the hardest step of the process. Geffner Kersch in Garden City, NY, understands how hard divorce is for the entire family, and their compassionate family law attorneys will guide you through every step of the proceedings, including child custody. They will share advice about informing your children about the divorce and helping them adjust.

A Family Law Attorney Shares 3 Tips for Telling Your Children About Your Divorce

1. Present a Unified Front

Even if you and your spouse are no longer a team, you must remain civil to parent effectively following a divorce. Maintain a united front when talking to your children about the situation and what they can expect in the months and years to come. Telling them two different stories will only confuse them, and they already have enough to deal with regarding the transition.

2. Remain Calm

Family law Garden City NYYou should never bottle up your emotions, but there is a time to grieve the end of your marriage, and it’s not in front of your children. If you remain calm during the conversation about your divorce, your children will take a cue from you. They are likely to be upset, but some of their anxiety will be alleviated when they see your composed demeanor.  

3. Plan Accordingly

Do not tell your children about your divorce right before dropping them off for activities like school or a sports practice. Choose a time when you will be available for several hours to help them process their emotions about the news and discuss how the change affects them.

If you are considering ending your marriage, turn to a divorce lawyer from Geffner Kersch in Garden City, NY. They have experience in every element of family law, including child custody, divorce modifications, and mediation. Visit the firm online to learn more about their skilled attorneys, and call (516) 268-9898 to schedule a consultation with a family law professional.  

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