Death is a difficult subject to talk about with children. They may not understand what it means for someone to die. But that doesn’t mean they shouldn't attend funeral services with the family. Some kids may be afraid to attend a funeral, but it’s important they have the experience earlier rather than later to remove any stigma. 

3 Reasons Children Should Attend Funerals

1. Have Closure

Whether they’re dealing with the loss of a grandparent, family friend, or even a parent, it’s best to give children the opportunity to say goodbye. Attending the funeral services is a great way to allow kids to feel comforted by family and get the closure they need.

2. Learn How to Handle Difficult Situations

Parents may want to protect their children from sadness and grief, but it will benefit them more to learn how to deal with life’s difficult situations. It may not be pleasant, but it will teach them how to move on and be resilient.

3. Confront Emotions

If children aren’t given a chance to feel grief, they will end up avoiding it and won’t learn how to confront their emotions. By watching adult family members grapple with loss, kids learn healthy ways to deal with their emotions alone and in the presence of others.

While it may be tempting to shield children from the reality of death and loss, having them attend the funeral service gives them a chance to experience different aspects of life they will have to deal with in a healthy way. At Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT, the caring staff is ready to guide you and your family through funeral arrangements, cremations, burial trusts, and more to make this difficult time as easy as possible. Call them today at (203) 375-2200, or visit them online to learn more.