The loss of a loved one is a trying time, which is usually followed by a memorial service for the deceased. While the grieving process differs for everyone, the etiquette for this type of service remains the same. Proper behavior at the church, at the burial grounds, and in the funeral home is a direct reflection of your respect, both for the family and for the person being honored.

Here, the compassionate professionals at Cincinnati’s Meyer & Geiser Funeral Home share how to maintain proper etiquette during a memorial service: 

• Arrival: Arrive in a quiet, timely manner. Once you enter the church or funeral home, be aware that front rows are reserved for close family members and friends. If your relationship is more distant, head toward the middle or back of the room.
• During the Service: Unless you have a consistent cough or a crying child, avoid getting up at any time. Remain quiet and in your seat, paying close attention throughout. Remember that cell phones have no place in or around the funeral home or any services honoring the deceased. Turn off your phone, and keep it put away. This is a simple manner of respect.
• Managing Children: Unless it’s specified differently during funeral planning, children are acceptable to bring to the memorial service. Attending helps children learn that death is a part of life, but it also depends on their age and maturity level. You know your child best, along with their behavior in public. Children should sit with you as a source of comfort. 
• During the Recessional: Despite varying methods of funeral planning, a recessional marks the end of most services. The coffin is carried out by an officiant, followed by immediate family, relatives, and friends. If burial is taking place, a line of cars will form en route to the grave site. Everyone in attendance is encouraged to come.