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When a child’s grandparent or great grandparent develops the signs of dementia or Alzheimer’s disease, it’s often difficult for parents to explain the condition, especially when they’re under a lot of stress. St. Louis, MO-based Memory Care Home Solutions realizes that significant changes to a loved one’s memory and cognitive ability have a profound affect on family members of every age—especially kids. To help ease the confusion and emotional stress, their caregiver training support staff answers the top questions from parents who are dealing with this challenge. 

FAQs About Dementia & Kids

1. Should I Explain Dementia to My Kids? st-louis-dementia

As dementia and Alzheimer’s disease progress, your children will naturally notice a difference in their grandma or grandpa’s behavior. Although it’s tempting to dodge the subject, it’s important to clearly and calmly explain the illness and why it’s affecting their loved one in this way. Since little ones easily perceive signs of stress, you’ll find that it’s relieving for them to hear exactly what’s behind your burden and sadness. 

2. How Do I Explain It Appropriately? 

In simple terms, tell your child what dementia is and how it’s affecting their grandparent. Explain that their brain has changed and it will alter their behavior permanently. You can share your emotions of sadness or worry, but take a balanced approach by explaining that caring for them is an important part of life. Consider that you may not be the best person to provide the explanation. A relative who is not providing care for the senior, such as a spouse or an uncle, may give them the answers they need in simpler terms. 

3. What Else Can I Do to Make Things Easier for My Child?

If visitations become too stressful for the child, consider limiting them. It’s natural for kids to feel uncomfortable and upset about seeing their grandparent in this condition. Provide positive reinforcement by letting your son or daughter know that their help and bravery is appreciated and that no matter how difficult it is, the experience will help them grow. 

For free dementia training and support for caregivers, call Memory Care Home Solutions in St. Louis, MO, at (314) 645-6247. To learn more about their results, visit their website

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