Joint custody arrangements are typically beneficial for children since they deserve to have both parents in their lives, but making such an arrangement work can be challenging for exes. If you’re considering divorce and want to discuss the various custody arrangements that you are facing, turn to The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot in Torrington, CT. As an experienced divorce lawyer, Attorney Jeannine can help you avoid making key mistakes that could compromise your chances of securing a satisfactory custody arrangement. She offers a few co-parenting tips for couples who have recently split.

Co-Parenting Tips From an Experienced Divorce Lawyer

Compartmentalize Your Emotions

You may be angry or frustrated with your ex-spouse, but just because someone is a bad partner does not mean he or she is a bad parent. Whenever you must interact with your ex because of your children, try to set aside your negative emotions and focus solely on what’s best for your kids.

Do Not Put Your Children in the Middle

Although parents rarely put their children in the middle intentionally, it happens more often than most people care to admit. Make an active effort to avoid placing the role of messenger on your children, and talk to your ex yourself in a calm, rational way when you have something to say.

Approach the Situation Like You Would a Business

You and your ex may no longer have a personal relationship, but since you still need to interact on a regular basis, you must maintain contact. In a sense, it’s as if your personal relationship has evolved into more of a business relationship. Talk to your ex as you would to a colleague—with respect and neutrality.

If you are facing divorce and you foresee a contentious child custody battle just around the corner, turn to The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot in Torrington, CT. Visit her website to learn more about her experience in child custody, and call (860) 482-9004 to schedule an initial consultation with a divorce lawyer today.