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Funeral Experts Offer 6 Ways to Help Little Ones Deal With Loss January 5, 2017

Pearl City, Ewa
Funeral Experts Offer 6 Ways to Help Little Ones Deal With Loss, Ewa, Hawaii

After years of providing some of the most compassionate grief support services on Oahu, Leeward Funeral Home understands how difficult it can be to approach the subject with someone who’s too young to fully comprehend what’s going on. If you have little ones and are unsure how to guide them through the grieving process, don’t be afraid to ask for assistance from the funeral professionals. Experienced in helping individuals deal with the loss of a loved one, Leeward Funeral Home knows the best ways to approach these difficult topics.

6 Ways To Explain Grief To A Child

1. Make It Simple

funeralChoose your words carefully and try to prepare them for what’s coming. You may have to break it down into very simple words or phrases in order for the child to understand what’s happened.  

2. Give Them Time

Once you’ve delivered the news, give them time to process what they’ve just heard. Some may need a moment of complete silence, while others might burst into tears. Always be ready to comfort and available to answer questions.

3. Verbalize Their Emotions

funeralFor some children, this might be their first experience with grief and loss. They may not understand all the emotions they’re feeling over the next few weeks. The best thing you can do is be present and encourage them to talk about their feelings, using descriptive words to help them figure out their emotions.

4. Prepare For The Future

One of the most important things you can do after the passing of a loved one is to prepare children for the change. It might be a shift in their living situation or the fact that they’ll have to live life without seeing the deceased person. The more children are prepared for the change, the smoother the transition will be.

5. Explain Each Ritual

funeralSince this may be their first funeral, be ready to explain the different aspects of each ritual. From a memorial service to a cremation ceremony, there are several different experiences they may encounter, and preparing your children ahead of time will help to understand what’s going on.

6. Provide Comfort When Needed

Above all else, be the comforting arms they can rely on. This is a time of change and adjustment, and many little ones just aren’t sure how to deal with it on their own. Be ready to provide a hug when needed and offer suggestions as to how they can remember their loved ones without being sad all the time.

If you’re looking for funeral planning assistance or have a question about their grief counseling services, contact Leeward Funeral Home at (808) 455-1041. One of their representatives will be available to take your call. Visit their website for additional information about the Pearl City funeral home.

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