When you’re making arrangements for a funeral or memorial service, it can be difficult to focus on preparing a proper eulogy. Even still, a eulogy can be an important part of the grieving process, and getting a little help writing one can be very useful. At Beecher & Bennett, the staff has been serving the Hamden, CT, area since 1894, and they’ve put together a few tips for writing a fitting eulogy.

How To Write A Eulogy For A Funeral Or Memorial Service

Focus On Good Memories

Eulogies are the perfect opportunity to focus on the cherished memories of the dearly departed. Think back to your happiest moments with them and share those memories with the other people in attendance. They will take comfort in remembering the deceased in those happy times.

Be Specific

It can be tempting to speak generally about the deceased, and while that’s certainly an aspect of writing a good eulogy, it’s often helpful to think very specifically about the little details you enjoyed and will miss. By focusing on these details, you’ll create a more tangible memory for yourself and for the people gathered. It’ll also help the memories you describe feel more vivid, transporting your listeners to a time when you were with the deceased and they were happy.

Consider Your Audience

Sometimes, it’s easy to forget you’re not just writing the eulogy for yourself. Make sure you consider who will be at the service and craft your material appropriately. Remember, the people gathered are already sad and will likely want to remember the good things about the deceased. Focus on happy memories and give your audience the opportunity to share a much-needed laugh.

Do you need funeral or memorial services? Give Beecher & Bennett a call at (203) 288-0800. You can also visit their website to find out more about their services, and connect with them on Facebook.