Losing a loved one, whether it’s a friend or a member of your immediate family, can be difficult. The thought of attending a funeral service can make this time even more challenging, but there are some steps you can take to make the process a bit easier. Eackles-Spencer & Norton Funeral Home in Harpers Ferry, WV, specializes in funeral planning, burials, and grief support. These professionals are here to offer a brief funeral guide to help you feel more comfortable at a funeral service.

Here are three etiquette tips when attending a funeral:

• Be Prompt: It’s best to be on time or even early for a funeral service. Entering late is distracting and can be interpreted as rude. If you do arrive late, wait in the back of the church or funeral home until the time is right. The ushers will most likely invite you to sit down at a more appropriate time, such as during a quick break between speakers. 
• Keep It Brief: Funeral services are emotional and sad for both family and friends. When you’re moving through the greeting line, keep your comments short and sweet. A simple hug and “I’m so sorry for your loss” is appropriate. Consider writing down some thoughts ahead of time in a journal, or bring a card to express your condolences.
• Plan For Mistakes: While you don’t mean to, you may find yourself saying something awkward or inappropriate to a family member of the deceased. Immediately apologize if the situation calls for it, try to express your true intention behind the comment, then let it go. Try not to dwell on the mistake and use it as a learning tool for next time.

Whether you need a funeral guide or help planning a loved one’s funeral service, contact the caring and compassionate staff at Eackles-Spencer & Norton Funeral Home. Call (304) 724-6500, or visit the website for more helpful funeral guide tips.