Abusive relationships often take years to manifest themselves, and sometimes, people don’t even realize they’re in one until it seems like it’s too late. Torrington, CT-based domestic violence attorney Jeannine of The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot specializes in family law. She understands how hard it is to leave an abusive relationship, but she also knows it’s never too late to make a fresh start. 

Here are three tips for escaping an abusive relationship:

• Acknowledge The Extent Of The Abuse: Victims are likely to minimize or even deny the existence of abuse, especially if it’s rarely physical. Emotional abuse is just as damaging as domestic violence, though, and the first step in getting out is acknowledging that the abuse does in fact occur.
• Reach Out: Regardless of your situation, there are both local and national organizations that will help you. For example, some people have no access to money, making them feel as though they are trapped in their abusive relationship. While that certainly makes it harder to get away, it does not make it impossible: Look for nearby domestic violence prevention groups, shelters, and lawyers who would be willing to assist you.
• Hide Your Intentions: When abusers catch on to the fact that their partners are looking for a way out, it makes them mad, and they often do whatever they can to force their significant others to stay. For that reason, you should hide your intentions of leaving. Always clear your search history if you are using a shared computer to look up organizations that will help you, and only tell those you trust that you are planning on leaving.

If you want to speak to a domestic violence attorney about your situation, turn to Attorney Jeannine. Family law is complicated, but at The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot, you will find the help you need to move toward a brighter future. Check out her website to learn more about her areas of practice, and call (860) 482-9004 to schedule a consultation with her today.