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As you prepare to pay your respects at a memorial service, you want to show your respect in your attire, too. There was a time that strictly all-black attire was considered the norm for attending funeral services, but today these rules tend to be more relaxed. The professionals at Nuuanu Memorial Park & Mortuary offer these guidelines for selecting appropriate attire:

  • Avoid Casual Clothes: Attire like denim, baseball caps, sneakers and flip flops are overly casual for burial services. For men, a collared shirt with dress pants or a suit and tie are a safe bet for appropriate attire for funeral services; for women, a dress, skirt and blouse, or suit works nicely.

  • Choose Color Wisely: Even though funerals no longer require all black attire, funeral services are not the time to wear your brightest colors or loudest prints. When in doubt, choose muted colors.
  • Pick Conservative Cuts: Because burial services are a time to show respect and reverence, tastefully conservative garments are best, without overly revealing hemlines or necklines.
  • Consider Customs: Rules and customs vary among cultures and faiths. For instance, many churches and synagogues prefer women keep their shoulders covered, so it’s a good idea to bring a cardigan or shawl if you wear a sleeveless garment. If you are attending burial services and are unfamiliar with the customs, it’s best to do a bit of research beforehand.

Nuuanu Memorial Park & Mortuary is proud to support Honolulu families in times of need, from funeral plans to burial services. To learn more about their compassionate approach to funeral plans and interment options, call (808) 537-5255 or visit their website.

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