Losing a loved one is an emotionally trying time that can leave one feeling overwhelmed and in need of support. If someone close to you experiences a loss, you may be wondering how to offer sympathy to the bereaved. With over 40 years of experience providing respectful funeral services for residents of Rochester, NY, Arndt Funeral Home has a few suggestions for sympathy etiquette. 

To show proper respect to a friend or relative who is grieving, the team at Arndt Funeral Home offer the following tips:

• Communicate That You Care: Not knowing what to say to a grieving loved one before or after a funeral service can lead to an awkward exchange. However, it’s better to say something than to say nothing. Offer a brief statement of sympathy, like “I’m sorry for your loss,” and give a few kind words about the deceased. No matter what, don’t pretend the death did not happen; staying silent is poor etiquette. You want to let the bereaved know that you genuinely care about them.
• Listen Actively: No two people will react to grief the same way; however, a listening ear is a common need of those experiencing grief. They need to know that their loss is acknowledged and that it’s okay for them to share their feelings, whatever they may be. When it comes to showing sympathy, learning how to listen is the most important thing. Be patient, accept their feelings, and be willing to sit in silence with them. Sometimes, just being present is enough.
• Know What Not to Say: Though your intentions may be honorable, some things should not be said when trying to offer sympathy during a funeral service. Avoid clichés if you can. It is easy to say things like “be strong” or “everything happens for a reason,” but the grieving person likely won’t appreciate this; it’s better to be simple and sincere when speaking. 

The compassionate specialists at Arndt Funeral Home understand the importance of remaining respectful when a friend's loved one passes on. If you’ve recently experienced a loss and need to arrange cremation, memorial, or funeral services, they will gladly assist you. Call today at (585) 225-6350 to speak with a staff member about your needs. You can also visit their website for more information about their services.