As difficult as funeral services are for adults to handle, they can also be extremely stressful for children who may not have a grasp on the concept of death. Parents may be uncertain of how their young ones will react to a funeral or memorial service, but by taking a few steps, they can help to prepare their kids for the occasion. Take a look at a few helpful pieces of advice below. 

Prepare Your Kids for Memorial Service Attendance

Address the Loss

Well before the services themselves, address the loss of your friend or loved one with your children. How you convey this information will depend on the child’s relationship to the deceased and may be influenced by your family’s cultural and religious beliefs. Help them to understand that the deceased is no longer among the living to avoid any shock or fright from the language used during the funeral services.

Explain Upcoming Events

As the funeral approaches, speak with your children about what will happen that day. If you will go to a funeral home, describe what will happen there, who else will be in attendance, and how the kids should behave while at the service. If you will also be going to a grave site, explain what will take place there as well. Knowing what to expect at each stage will cut back on anxiety for both you and your children. 

Ask for Assistance

The employees at the funeral home your family has chosen are responsible for addressing your funeral needs. Let them know that children will be in attendance, and ask for guidance during services. Experienced providers have been through this process with children before, and they will be able to help your family if the kids are struggling. 

Middendorf Funeral Home in Northern Kentucky has been in the business since the late 1800s, and has helped countless families navigate the funeral service process. Based in Ft. Mitchell, these professionals are there to help your family through the toughest times with care. Visit Middendorf Funeral Home’s website and call (859) 341-7800 for more information.