Amid extensive paperwork, property disputes, and day-to-day obligations, filing for divorce can be stressful. If you’re upset, you may understandably be tempted to post on social media about what you’re going through. However, the experienced divorce lawyers at Seiler & Parker P.C., L.L.O. in Hastings, NE, encourage you to practice immense caution when using Facebook, Instagram, or another social media sites during your proceedings. All too often, those who file for divorce make a few crucial mistakes that may cost them down the road.

Divorce Lawyer-Approved Advice: What Not to do on Social Media 

1. Post Photos With Dates, at the Bar, or Partying

Whether you go on a date or head to the bar with friends, you may be tempted to show the world how much fun you’re still managing to have, despite the divorce. While you deserve to enjoy life, your spouse’s lawyer may be watching. Even if you’re not doing anything wrong, an innocuous photo of you with friends at the bar may be used against you in court. Your spouse’s attorney may use an innocent photo or status update to question your parenting skills and contest child custody.

2. Use Facebook as Your Personal Journal

Going through a divorce can be emotionally exhausting, and you deserve the support of loved ones throughout this challenging time. However, you may want to hesitate before expressing your frustrations on social media. Avoid posting public rants about the proceedings. Later on, your spouse’s lawyer may use these posts against you. Instead, send a private text to your friend and go grab a coffee together.

3. Expose Your Ex Online

Sometimes, divorces become messy. You may feel angry and want to lash out on your ex. No matter how angry you become, though, it’s important to abstain from posting information intended to harm your ex on social media. Even if you want to gripe about your ex’s bad parenting skills, for example, resist the urge. Keeping the peace will ensure you don’t suffer negative legal repercussions later on.

If you’re amid a stressful divorce, you may want to deactivate your social media account to avoid the temptation to post. For the legal support you need throughout this difficult time, contact the divorce lawyers from Seiler & Parker, P.C., L.L.O. To schedule a free consultation, call (402) 463-3125. For more information about legal services, including estate planning and corporate law, visit the website.