After a stressful divorce or intense custody dispute, it's understandable you may want to move somewhere new with your children and get a fresh start. However, this can be tricky terrain to navigate, both legally and emotionally, so it is important to bear a few things in mind before you move. Below, divorce lawyer Jeannine M. Talbot of The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot in Torrington, Connecticut, explains what you need to know about moving with your kids.

A Divorce Lawyer’s Guide to Relocating With Children

1. Educate Yourself About State Laws

Family laws typically cover the legal components of relocating with children after a divorce, though the exact parameters vary by state. In Connecticut, if you declare your intention to move with your kids out of your immediate area, you will be required to establish three things. First, there must be a valid purpose for your move; second, the location of your move must be logical and reasonable considering that purpose; and, third, the relocation must suit the best interests of your minor children.

2. Be Prepared for All Outcomes

Once you submit your reasons to the court, be prepared for any outcome. Family courts are charged first and foremost with ensuring the best interests of the children are looked after. A parent's wish to be closer to loved ones or to get a better-paying job may be overruled by what the courts view as a more beneficial arrangement for your kids. Your divorce lawyer will help you submit all the necessary legal paperwork to address your move, such as a change of child custody/visitation request, and will represent you in any move-related legal issues.

3. Consider the Emotional Aspects of the Move

As the old adage says, "Wherever you go, there you are." Your physical relocation is not going to magically heal any existing emotional wounds you or your kids may have. And moving your children away from their other parent could do more harm than good. On the other hand, some moves can provide an ideal opportunity for everyone to start fresh in new surroundings. Consider the emotional aspects of your relocation carefully before making any big decisions; you want to do what is right for your family.

Overall, it’s best to enlist the help of an experienced lawyer before you undertake any significant relocation with your children. Call The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot at (860) 482-9004 to arrange an appointment with a divorce lawyer. You can learn more about Attorney Jeannine's firm by visiting her Facebook and Google+ pages.