After the death of a loved one, those left behind are often in a delicate, emotional state. As such, if you're attending a funeral, it is important to be polite and respectful to those in mourning. The following rules of etiquette will help you navigate the situation without causing offense to anyone during their time of grief.

5 Important Funeral Etiquette Tips

Arrive Early

Arriving late is more or less excusable in many settings, but there are some situations in which doing so is inappropriate. A late arrival to a funeral can be disruptive to those who are trying to honor the departed, so if possible, leave extra room in your schedule to arrive early and avoid causing any distractions.

Find an Appropriate Place to Sit

In general, the front few rows in the chapel or the funeral home are reserved for those closest to the deceased. If you are family or a dear friend, you may sit close to the front. Otherwise, choose a seat further back.

Dress Conservatively

In general, a funeral calls for business attire in muted colors. Avoid anything eye-catching or flashy. Essentially, if you would wear it to an exciting party, you should not wear it to a funeral.

Follow Instructions

The funeral services will follow a plan established by the family, which may include prayers or songs where the attendees will be expected to participate. Even if you are not religious, it is respectful to join in. Similarly, when attendees are dismissed, or the funeral procession is arranged, follow instructions as closely as possible.

Make Arrangements for Children

In general, you should not bring children to a funeral unless they are old enough to understand its significance and behave appropriately. Exceptions can be made for relatives of the deceased, but if you have any doubts, check with the family before bringing your little one with you.

Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT, has provided caring service to the area's residents for over 100 years. They offer help and guidance to those planning funerals, burials, and cremations. During this difficult time, they are here to help you. For assistance and information, call them at (203) 375-2200 or contact them through their website.