The beginning of the fall semester can be a difficult time for co-parenting families, especially regarding child custody. The transition from summer vacation to school presents a variety of issues, as parents must readjust their schedules to accommodate for various new obligations. To avoid conflict and ensure a stress-free segue, it is important that parents reexamine and update their arrangements.

Below, the family law attorneys at Coyne, Cundiff & Hillemann, P.C. in Lake St. Louis, MO, offer three back-to-school child custody tips to help you through the transition:

Stay Consistent 

Children thrive on consistency. Begin by referring to last year’s school schedule. Most custody arrangements dictate where a child will reside on school nights and weekends. Assuming the new school year does not involve new bus routes, schools, or extracurricular activities, you may be able to maintain the same arrangement.

However, if there are changes to you or your child’s schedule and availability, a new arrangement is in order. If possible, avoid changes from week-to-week; sit down with your co-parent and create a simple, agreeable structure.

Be Flexible

Schedule conflicts will happen. In addition to school calendars, co-parents must now accommodate for recitals, football practice, field trips, and other related functions. The more flexible you are with visitation, the easier it will be for the entire family. Make a point to plan out events ahead of time, substituting visitation when necessary. Sitting in for your co-parent on occasion benefits you greatly if you run into your own issues down the road.

Plan Ahead

The school year is riddled with parent teacher conferences, PTA meetings, and holidays. Planning who will tend to each helps you and your co-parent avoid unnecessary turmoil while ensuring your child’s needs are met. Consider maintaining a shared calendar to ensure everyone is on the same page, and if your child has an emergency or needs assistance, each party will know how to contact the other. 

If you require the aid of a seasoned child custody lawyer, Coyne, Cundiff & Hillemann, P.C., provide the personalized and professional legal counsel you deserve. Focusing on a variety of practice areas, some of their specialties include family law, personal injury, and DUI. Visit the practice online or call (636) 561-5599 to schedule your free consultation.