Dealing with the loss of a loved one is hard, especially for a younger member of the family that might not understand the significance of a memorial ceremony. The compassionate professionals at Eackles-Spencer & Norton Funeral Home in Harpers Ferry, WV, know that losing a friend or family member can be difficult for kids, so they’ve compiled some tips to help make it easier for your children to attend a funeral service. 

They suggest explaining the following aspects to your child prior to the ceremony: 

• Experiencing Loss: One of the most difficult aspects of a funeral service for a child to grasp is the idea of loss. It’s important to explain to them the process of the funeral, as well as its significance. You should also let them know that it provides an environment for people to gather and grieve in a positive way, celebrating the life and loss of their loved ones. Additionally, tell them that everyone deals with grief differently, and there’s no right or wrong way to mourn.
• Viewing the Body: It doesn’t matter how old an attendee is—no one should be forced to view the remains of a loved one if they’re not ready to. When going over the funeral process with your child, explain that they have the choice whether or not they want to see the deceased one last time. If they choose to view the body, describe to them what they will see, as well as how the body may feel to the touch. For children, touching is often a way of solidifying the finality of death, but they need to be prepared to do so. 
• Tending to the Body: When your child attends a funeral service, there should be no mystery as to what’s done with their loved one’s body after the ceremony is over. Children have quite a vivid imagination, so explain all the ins and outs of the burial and cremation processes to leave nothing to the imagination—just do so in a way that is sensitive and appropriate for their age. 

Coping with the loss of a loved one is never easy for a child, but these steps should help give them the proper introduction to the grieving process. If you need assistance with a funeral service, the professionals at Eackles-Spencer & Norton Funeral Home are here to help. Give these caring team members a call today at (304) 724-6500 to schedule an appointment, and visit them online for more information on what they can do for you.