For many, writing is a challenge under the best of circumstances, and even more so when creating obituaries for a loved one who has passed away. Honoring a deceased family member in this manner can be a meaningful part of the grieving process, and will be a keepsake for family and friends to remember them by. The following guide to writing obituaries will help you put together one that would make your loved one proud.

Announcement

Most obituaries open with an announcement of the name and age of the deceased, as well as the date of death and the city where the deceased lived. Some obituaries also mention the cause of death, but this is optional, and you should not feel compelled to mention it if you don’t feel comfortable doing so.

Background Information

This is an opportunity to mention the deceased’s most significant accomplishments. It shouldn’t be an extensive biography, but rather the moments that defined their life. It can be a mix of personal and professional accomplishments, educational achievement, hobbies, or anything else that defined your loved one’s legacy.

Surviving Family

Next, list the surviving family members, beginning with the closest relatives, such as a spouse. Then, list any children and grandchildren, as well as parents and siblings. Given space constraints, it’s acceptable to write, “10 grandchildren” instead of listing them each by name. Nieces, nephews, and cousins are not usually listed, but they can be included if they were close to the deceased.

Service Details

Your funeral director will provide you with the details for this section. It will include the date, place, and time of any services taking place. Some obituaries also list the name of the officiant, but again, this is optional.

Personalized Message

Finally, you can end the obituary with a special message. This is where people often request donations in lieu of flowers, or offer thanks to hospital personnel who helped the loved one and family members. You can also include a special religious message or a quote from a piece of literature.

Writing an obituary might seem like an intimidating task, especially when grieving for a lost loved one. Don’t be shy about asking a family member, friend, or your funeral director for help. Funeral directors, especially, are experienced with this process and are there to help you along the way.

Eackles-Spencer & Norton Funeral Home has provided residents in Harpers Ferry, WV, with caring and compassionate funeral planning services since 1918. Their customized approach helps families honor their loved ones’ traditions and final wishes. A licensed funeral director is also available to help you and your family with any funeral arrangements. Call (304) 724-6500 to speak with a member of their team about writing obituaries, and visit them online to begin making arrangements.