Pickup time at a children’s day care center can be a struggle. Whether your child has difficulty transitioning from one place to another or simply doesn’t want to stop playing with their friends, it can make the end-of-day routine challenging if you constantly face the prospect of a tantrum or fussiness.

Fortunately, there are ways to ease the process and make it more peaceful for everyone involved. Here are some helpful tips to make pickup time a little easier:

• Take It Slow: If possible, try not to rush the pickup process. An abrupt departure can be jarring and may make a child even more upset. Spend some time chatting with the children’s day care provider and collect your little one’s belongings. This way, you’re ready when they’re ready—and no one is rushing out the door in a hurry.
• Bring a Treat: Make pickup time an enjoyable process your child anticipates. Bring a snack and drink for the car ride home, and place their favorite stuffed animal or other toy on the seat as a surprise. Ask them what they did during the day, and encourage them to share something interesting or fun they learned.
• Have a Routine: You can continue the pickup routine even at home. Create a ritual that is yours and yours alone, whether it’s flipping through the pages of a book together, listening to lullabies while relaxing on the sofa, or singing together. Simple cuddle time is also an excellent option.

The idea is to create a safe, warm, and loving routine your child recognizes as safe. This will help normalize the transition from child care back to home. In some cases, kids may respond well to certain techniques in a preschool program or licensed child care center. If so, your child care provider may be able to offer some valuable advice.

A Rising Star Children’s Center, based in Cortlandt Manor, NY, is the area’s leading children’s child care and early childhood learning service. Whether you are seeking child care, infant and toddler care, or an excellent preschool program, you can rely on the school’s experienced staff to make a difference in your little one’s life. Visit the website to learn more, or call (914) 788-4582 for more information.