Deciding what to wear to a wedding shouldn’t be stressful. From casual to extremely formal, weddings run the gamut of wardrobe options. If you aren’t sure how to dress for the wedding venue listed on the invitation, Honolulu, HI’s Manoa Grand Ballroom offers a quick guide to decoding the wedding dress code:

The Formal List

White Tie

The most formal of all the dress codes, men are expected to wear a black tuxedo with tails, formal white shirt complete with white vest and bow tie, and white or gray gloves. The look is topped off with black formal shoes. For the women, a floor-length evening gown is a must.

Black Tie

Usually occurring in the evening, men sport a tuxedo with a black bow tie, black vest or cummerbund, and patent leather shoes. For summer weddings, men can trade in the tuxedo jacket for a white dinner jacket. Some affairs allow a black suit, but check before swapping out the tux. For women, floor-length gowns are suggested, but a fancy cocktail dress can also work. Ask the bride for guidance on the dress length.

Black Tie Optional or Formal

If you want to break out the tux, you can, but it’s not required. However, a formal dark suit is finished off with white shirt and tie (nothing too bold). Women have a few options for a formal event. Long gowns or cocktail dresses are acceptable as well as dressy separates and suits.

The Laidback List

Semi-Formal or Dressy Casual

Weddings in this category can begin at different times of the day, so check your invitation for details. Evening events mean darker colors while daytime receptions allow for lighter colors and fabrics. Men can generally stick with a suit and tie while ladies have the option of cocktail dresses or classy skirts and blouses.

Festive Attire

Let your fun side shine when the invitation says festive. Think bold, fun colors and patterns for cocktail party dresses and accessories. The guys can get in on the fun too with bright ties and other fun accessories for their suits.

Casual

Usually, for casual weddings, the wedding venue is outside or in a special location, like the beach. Expect a more laidback vibe that can extend to your outfit. Sundresses are perfect for women and girls while the men can relax in dress pants or khakis and a simple button-down shirt. Ties may be optional, but it’s good to check with the bride or groom.

For your next big event, Manoa Grand Ballroom is the venue to choose. The banquet hall offers services and amenities for any occasion, making it a top option as a wedding venue or corporate event location. Family-owned and -operated, they make sure your event is exactly what you want and within your budget. Visit them online for more information or call (808) 946-6758.