Words heal—they can provide hope in times of great suffering. The power of language is a big reason why obituaries are such an important part of the grieving process. Along with a respectful funeral, obituaries can help someone who is in mourning feel as though they are truly celebrating the life of the person who has passed on. If you’re a skilled writer, you may want to offer your help to friends or family members who are in the middle of the funeral planning process. 

If you choose to do so, keep the following recommendations in mind.

3 Helpful Tips for Writing Obituaries

1. Discuss It With the Family

Even if you’re the one to write the obituary, you certainly won’t be the only person with ideas and opinions about what should be included. Before you write anything, take time to meet with the family and discuss with them the various points and details they want you to focus on. Your role is to help them—that means listening to them and what they have to say.

2. Remember the Essentials

While you definitely want to add personal points to show that the deceased was truly loved, don’t forget to include necessary details, such as the full name, date and place of birth and death, employment history, education history, family members, and, if the family agrees, cause of death.

3. Be Professional

Writing an obituary is not an opportunity for you to show off your poetic talent. You have a very important and simple job to do: help someone grieve in a positive, uplifting way. Again, feel free to include personal details, but don’t be too unconventional in your style.

It is a tremendous honor when someone asks you to help them commemorate the life of a person they loved. Keep these points in mind to help you remember that.

If you need a compassionate team to help you with funeral planning, get in touch with Adzima Funeral Home, in Stratford, CT. Contact them online to learn more about their services, or call (203) 375-2200.