Picking your child up from day care can be stressful for them, sometimes resulting in tears and tantrums. Rest assured such behavior is completely normal, according to the day care professionals at Tiny World Child Care in Brookline, MA. Offering a Spanish enrichment experience and a safe, loving environment for children ranging in age from eight weeks to five years old, the bilingual day care center strives to become a second home for infants and toddlers. Below, they have a few ideas to help you make day care pickup time a routine part of your child’s day.

You may be surprised to find your child doesn’t want to stop what they’re doing and leave their friends when you arrive. Don’t take it personally. Just let them know you’re there and give them time to finish what they’re doing and say goodbye to their friends. Additionally, try not to rush so you don’t have to whisk your child away abruptly. Use the extra time to check in with your child’s day care provider and see how the day went. Also, gather your child’s belongings for them so they’re ready to go.

When you get in the car, find ways to make the ride home a pleasant experience so your child will look forward to it. Kids are often hungry and thirsty at the end of the day, so have a snack and a drink waiting for them in the car. Be cheerful and take some time to ask your child about their day. If they aren’t particularly talkative, draw them out with specific questions, such as what they liked most about their day or who their favorite friends are.

Routines are healthy for children and adults, so it’s important to show your little one day care pickup time is just a normal part of the day. A sense of predictability helps young children feel safe and comfortable, giving them the confidence they need to explore their world.

For more tips on how to ease your child into day care, call the early childhood educators at Tiny World Child Care at (617) 232-0115. You can check out the day care center’s educational programs online.