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If you’ve ever struggled with finding the right words to comfort someone during a difficult time, you’re not alone. Even the most practiced writers have difficulty writing sympathy notes. To help you send a meaningful and appropriate message, the funeral directors at Leo M. Bean And Sons Funeral Home in Rochester, NY, are here with some advice.

Before composing your sympathy note for a friend, coworker, or loved one, here are a few helpful tips to consider:

  • Start With Condolences: First and foremost, let your recipient know you’re sorry for their loss. In general, simplicity is best. For instance, a phrase like “I’m so sorry for your loss” is sufficient. Should you see fit, you can also write something along the lines of “We’re sending healing prayers your way.”

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  • Show Admiration: If you knew the deceased, feel free to let the grieving person know the special impact their loved one had on your life. Here, you can remark on the standout qualities of the deceased and/or the memories you’ll cherish. For instance, noting the deceased’s positive attributes, such as being kindhearted, funny, talented, and so forth, can help bring joy to the survivor in knowing that their loved one touched the lives of others.
  • Offer Assistance: If you’re close to the recipient and can help with arrangements in any way, offer your assistance in the note as well. This is a time in the survivor’s life when they might truly need help, and whether you assist by making phone calls, contacting funeral directors, or simply making meals and helping to keep their household running, you could make a significant impact in the person’s life by lending a hand.

If you or someone you know needs assistance with arrangements after a loved one’s passing, the compassionate funeral directors at Leo M. Bean And Sons Funeral Home will help every step of the way. To speak with someone at the funeral home, call (585) 426-7830. You can also visit their website to learn more and find the funeral home on Facebook.

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