Divorce is not simply a legal settlement. It is also the process of planning for the future of your family. Unfortunately, divorces can be long and difficult, especially for any children involved. For them, emotional concerns will seem more important than anything else. So while you, your former spouse, and your attorneys sort out the legal issues, it’s important to talk to your kids about the divorce with their emotional and psychological well-being foremost in your mind.

Below are a few tips on talking to kids about divorce from the experienced team at The Law Offices of Katzman, Logan, Halper and Bennett, LPA in Cincinnati, Ohio.

3 Good Ways To Talk To Your Kids About Divorce

1. Keep Their Health In Mind

Divorce is painful for adults, too, but it is important to remain the grown-up in any conversation with children. You may feel hurt and possibly even frustrated with them, but don’t let your emotions steer you toward hurting your child’s feelings. What you say to them during this process can resonate over a very long time, so don’t let them feel you’re angry with them or blame them for the divorce.

2. Try To Present A United Front

Even if Mommy and Daddy aren’t getting along, one crucial step toward being successful co-parents in the future is finding a way to talk to the kids as a family. If possible, both you and your ex should talk to the kids together after planning what to say. Emphasize that the dissolution of the marriage was a decision you, the parents, felt you had to make together.

3. Answer Their Questions

Don’t brush off your children’s feelings by simply saying everything will be fine. It is important to acknowledge everyone involved feels hurt and equally important to deal with those feelings together in a supportive way. By the same token, don’t expect your child’s emotions to always flow freely. Ask them questions a few times a week to make sure they know you are available to listen to their feelings.

For advice on legal aspects like child support and custody, turn to an experienced law firm like The Law Offices of Katzman, Logan, Halper and Bennett, LPA. If you need representation during a divorce in Cincinnati, call them today at (513) 793-4400 or visit their website to find answers to some frequently asked questions about divorce law.