A divorce introduces a tidal wave of change into the lives of everyone affected, but perhaps no one is more impacted than the children involved. For over three decades, the family law, accident, and injury attorneys of Curt Davis Law Office PLLC in Somerset have been representing clients throughout the state of Kentucky. They understand just how important it is to talk openly, honestly, and respectfully to children about divorce.

Here, the law office shares some tips for approaching the subject of divorce with children:

• Present A United Front: When sitting your children down to tell them of your divorce, try to put your differences aside for the moment and have this important conversation with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse at your side. This creates a united front, letting children know they are still part of a loving family unit, that both parents are still engaged in the family, and that the children are supported. Obviously, do everything possible to avoid bickering with your spouse or assigning blame; just present the facts in age-appropriate terms.
• Encourage Questions: Most kids will have questions about the divorce — a lot of questions. It can only help everyone involved for parents to encourage those questions. One question, however, is often left unasked — "Is this my fault?" Be sure to reassure your children that they are not to blame for the divorce. The family law, accident, and injury attorneys of Curt Davis Law Office will work with you to find the therapeutic resources your family needs to weather the emotional upheaval that comes in the wake of a divorce.
• Never Badmouth Your Ex: As the realities of the divorce set in, children may continue to ask questions or express a desire to keep talking about it. While open communication is always a good thing, don't be tempted to badmouth or talk ill of your ex in front of the kids. This sets up an "us vs. them" attitude, and it's vital that children feel the cohesiveness of a united family unit during a time of such major transition.

Divorce introduces significant changes into the lives of every family member; be sure your children feel safe, comfortable, and able to talk freely about the issues with which they're grappling. Call the Curt Davis Law Office PLLC at (606) 378-2525 to schedule a consultation with a family law, accident, or injury attorney today. You can also visit them online to learn more about their services and other practice areas, and find the law office on Google +.