When a loved one passes on, the grieving process is a natural part of letting the deceased go. Everyone processes loss differently, and some friends and family members may have a more difficult time with the mourning period than others. Arndt Funeral Home in Rochester, NY, has more than 40 years of experience in compassionate service and support, and has a few suggestions for proactive ways to help a loved one who is grieving. 

When offering support to a loved one in pain, Arndt Funeral Home encourages you to consider the following:

• Remember To Listen: One of the most basic ways that humans interact is by listening to each other when it is needed. By letting your family and friends express their feelings, you are letting them know that the way they feel is valid and that you are present to provide emotional support. Never underestimate the value of simply letting someone know they have someone who cares. 
• Focus On Life: When someone dies, try to remind those around you of all the good memories and great experiences you shared with the deceased, and how fortunate you are to have known them. Focusing on the life lived instead of the recent loss can provide significant comfort. 
• Allow For Space: In the same way that we sometimes need someone to show their support, there are also times when we require solitude to process our grief in private. Always respect your loved one's wishes, and remember how important it is to allow them to grieve on their own terms while still remaining available if they should need your support. 

If you need compassionate, attentive assistance with funeral pre-planning or arranging a memorial service, call Arndt Funeral Home at (585) 225-6350 today or visit their website for many answers to common funeral questions.