No funeral service is easy, especially not a family funeral. The staff at Leo M. Bean and Sons Funeral Home in Rochester, NY, understands that the loss of a loved one is one of the most difficult experiences a person must endure. A family funeral is painful and uncomfortable for everyone involved. But, it is important to take special care of those who are grieving the most. 

Follow these tips from Leo M. Bean and Sons Funeral Home to comfort and support a grieving friend or family member at a funeral service:

• Listen Closely: There's not much to be said. More than anything, focus on listening to the griever. Be sure to acknowledge their words and accept whatever feelings they exhibit.
• Sit Quietly: The person grieving may not want to speak at all. Being present with them and lending a shoulder to cry on can often do more than words can.
• Offer Assistance: Practical assistance is more powerful than platitudes. At the funeral service, don't ask how you can help. Make a clear offer to help with specific responsibilities and chores (walk the dog, take out the trash).

  

• Express Your Condolences: This is important, but remember to keep it simple. An "I'm so sorry" is enough. Truthfully, the griever may not be able to pay attention to much more than this.

A family funeral will always be tough, but with these tips, you'll be able to support your grieving loved ones. Leo M. Bean And Sons Funeral Home has been providing professional funeral services to Rochester residents for over 40 years. For more information, call them today at (585) 426-7830 or visit them online today.